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Some things that have caught my eye in the last week.

Donald Miller posts of an idea that’s turning charity upside-down

Design your own pair of chucks.

What your email address says about you.

Jake Johnson drops some thoughts on BP’s PR on his agency’s blog.

I like the way John Chandler thinks.

For parents and future parents, here are 8 reasons children misbehave.

Clayton King reminds us to mind our manners.

Sharing your faith the Celtic way by J.R. Woodward

Two sitcom stars from my childhood past away in the past week. R.I.P. Gary Coleman & Rue McClanahan

And if you haven’t read it, here’s my piece on the infamous near-perfect baseball game.

The Gospel According to Baseball

Sports fans everywhere are outraged following the butchered call by baseball umpire Jim Joyce in Detriot Tigers pitcher Armando Galarraga’s quest for a perfect game.

Immediately, Twitter and other social media sites were abuzz about the injustice that occurred with two outs in the bottom of the ninth inning.  Less than a day later, Jim Joyce and Armando Galarraga are the top trending topics on Google and blogs like this one are all over the place.

That single play in a baseball game, and the subsequent public reaction, reveal much about our collective humanity. Innate within us is a common thread that is woven in us all- even the tribe of us barbaric, male sports fans.

We crave justice. When Jim Joyce signaled the base-runner safe, all those who watched felt something. That something is the common thread we all share: that wrongs must be made right.

The theological term is justification. It’s what the world feels about the current oil spill in the gulf coast, or the mistreatment of women and children caught up in the sex slavery, or the destruction that hit the nation of Haiti. Wrongs must be righted. And for a brief moment in a baseball game, we all agreed on what was wrong: the missed call.

Why?…

Nobody’s perfect. If we’re honest, we know that in us, and in this world, something is not right.  That something is amiss. Unlike baseball players, baseball umpires are expected to bat a thousand.  The problem is they’re humans. And we humans are simultaneously created good yet are born flawed beings. We make mistakes. We miss the mark.

But…

True repentance is a thing of beauty. Umpire Jim Joyce is a class act.  ESPN reports how he handled his big oops:

“Galarraga bitterly sipped a beer minutes after the blown call negated his place in baseball history. An apology and hug changed his attitude after Joyce, in tears, asked for a chance to apologize [emphasis mine]…. ‘It was the biggest call of my career, and I kicked the [stuff] out of it,’ Joyce said, looking and sounding distraught as he paced in the umpires’ locker room. ‘I just cost that kid a perfect game.’

Jim Joyce didn’t let his pride get in the way, make excuses, or defer to a PR firm. He owned his mistake, admitted it for all to see, and attempted to make things right with the one he wronged. Leonard Cohen once sang, “When they said repent…I wonder what they meant.” Well, Mr. Cohen, I believe this is what they meant.

Finally…

Nothing’s more powerful than forgiveness. Forgiveness rights the wrong of another even when they don’t deserve it. It wipes clean a debt that’s owed. Forgiveness is not fair and that’s what makes it good. It’s the wonder of amazing grace.

Armando Galarraga displayed grace as he immediately publicly forgave Joyce. According to Tonic.com:

“When a Detroit Free Press reporter approached Galarraga in the locker room after the game and informed him that Joyce felt truly terrible and apologized for the botched call, it wouldn’t have been surprising if the pitcher used the opportunity to call Joyce every name in the book.

But this amazing pitcher chose not to do that. Instead, he showed him something much different: forgiveness.

‘Tell him no problem,’ Galarraga told the Free Press. ‘I can go tell him.’

Then he smiled. ‘I should probably talk to him. It will be better.’ And he did.”

Author Philip Yancey writes, “Grace baffles us because it goes against the intuition that everyone has that, in the face of injustice, some price must be paid.” Forgiveness is not easy, but it’s necessary to survive with people who sin against us and those we sin against. There’s no peace and reconciliation without forgiveness.

When it comes to our relationship with God, all of us have fallen short. Nobody’s perfect. Our craving for justice, to right wrongs, mirrors that of our Creator.  We have wronged against God and someone must pay.

Thankfully, God became a man in Jesus Christ and took the blame for us. 2 Corinthians 5:21 tells us that “For our sake God made him who knew no sin, to become sin so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.”  That, my friends, is good news. That’s the gospel of grace.  On the cross, the keg of God’s grace was tapped and is available to all. All we have to do is put our faith in him and follow him.  In light of this amazing grace, we live our lives and offer it to others.

Grace.

This is what we learned from a Wednesday night baseball game in Detroit.

How You Roll

When you dispense advice on life, but yours lacks joy…

you are all show.

When you say you want friends, but you fail to be one…

you are all show.

When you twitter about causes, but you don’t give in any capacity…

you are all show.

When you complain about the government, but you don’t participate…

you are all show.

When you point out the faults of others, but are blinded to your own…

you are all show.

When your marriage is in a rut, but you’ve stopped pursuing your spouse…

you are all show.

When you preach against consumerism, but you spend what you don’t have…

you are all show.

When you’re passionately pro-life, but not passionately pro-living…

you are all show.

When you study theology, but you’re a self-righteous jerk,

you are all show.

When you talk about community, but you’re not actively a part of one…

you are all show.

When you say you have faith, but you worry about everything…

you are all show.

However…

When your life is full of joy, people will ask you for advice…

because of how you roll.

When you are a friend, you will have friends…

because of how you roll.

When you’re giving to a cause, your twitter updates will be more credible…

because of how you roll.

When you participate in government, your concerns will have more merit…

because of how you roll.

When you take the sawdust out of your eye, you can better see how to help another…

because of how you roll.

When you keep pursuing your spouse, you will prevent marital laziness…

because of how you roll.

When you stop spending what you don’t have, you can help others do the same…

because of how you roll.

When you live like your life matters, people will see all life matters…

because of how you roll.

When you study with humility, you’ll love from your theology…

because of how you roll.

When you’re active in community, what you say will mean something…

because of how you roll.

When you truly have faith in God, you truly lose faith in worry…

because of how you roll.

Don’t let how your roll be a big show. Let your light show by how you roll.

I should know.

Yours Truly,

The Recovering Hypocrite

Around the Internets

iPad + Velcro. Oh, the possibilities…

I dare you to read Ed Stetzer’s Post, “Involving All of God’s People in All of God’s Mission

Iron Baby.

A fantastic resource to get demographic information.

Interesting read on bi-vocational pastors over at bedeviant.com

50 Cent Dwindles

100 years after his death, Mark Twain’s autobiography will finally be published.

Great series by Jonathan Herron on what the church can learn from SNL.

And finally, for those who haven’t seen it, the swagger wagon.

What You Don’t Have to Pray About

“I’ll pray about that.”

In a way, this statement sounds super-spiritual.  It leads one to think this person is going to wake up at 4am, go on a mountaintop and watch the sunset, and get an epiphany from God about whether or not  to do whatever it is they are praying about.

Many times, it doesn’t works out that way.

Often, it’s a buffer.

However, there’s something you don’t have to pray and ask God about.

Something you don’t have to seek God’s will on.

What is it?

What He’s already said.

Should I forgive this person?

No need to ask, He he’s already said so.

Should I show these people love?

No need to ask, He’s already said so.

Should I be an active part of a community?

No need to ask, He’s already said so.

Should I work on this marriage even though we’re incompatible?

No need to ask, He’s already said so.

Should I sacrifice my time, money, and energy, even though I don’t feel like it?

No need to ask, He’s already said so.

I could go on.

Imagine if we’d just say “yes” to what God has already commanded?

What if our first instinct to what God has already said was a green light rather than a yellow light (which we often secretly wished would turn red so we wouldn’t have to be inconvenienced)?

We could pray more pointed prayers.

We could be bringing hope to the hopeless.

We could be a giver rather than a taker?

We could begin healing relationships?

We could be on our way to the life we’re meant to live.

This isn’t to say seeking God isn’t important. Of course it is.

But don’t use prayer as an excuse to delay what God’s commanded.

Just do it.

And see what happens.

How Revolutions Are Sparked

Revolutions are sparked in churches with Christ as their Cornerstone, with jacked-up people whose stories are being changed by Jesus, who are in awe of him and can’t help but love Him and others with reckless abandon, who pray to God like it matters, whose lives are guided and grounded by scripture, who are connected to one another in love, sacrifice, and service, and who are joining God in His mission in this world!

Where the Next BIG Idea Meets UNconference

In June, I have to privilege of sharing at “Denver 2010: Where the Next BIG Idea Meets UNconference.”

According to JR Woodward, one of the organizer’s of the event,

“The next big idea is about people sharing about innovative ways to partner with God in the renewal of all things. Unconference is about freely sharing creative ideas with one another without putting anyone on a pedestal. It is more participant oriented than personality driven. There is also no cost, because people share their gifts and knowledge freely.”

I’m looking forward to being a part of this.  If you’re anywhere near the area, it would be great to meet you.   Here’s a link to the flyer with the details.

My presentation is one of 14 presentations with each lasting 14 minutes. My hope is to squeeze everything into 14 minutes which should be a healthy exercise for me. I’m told there will be a visible clock to hold me accountable as well as rotten tomatoes to throw if needed.

Here’s a sneak peek into my topic:

Theme: Family and Mission

Title: “But Dad, You’re My Pastor”

Big Idea: What if the Church shifted from a “Safe For the Whole Family” mindset to a “Families on Mission” movement?

Summary paragraph: Many families are tearing apart at the seams. Broken hearts, broken homes, broken lives…and that’s just the pastors. Other families are struggling just to keep up with the American Dream with no sense of purpose other than their own fulfillment. It’s no wonder our families, and churches, have been blinded by complacency to the needs of this world.

What if families were awakened to join God in his mission in the world? How would that impact marriages? How would that shape children? How would that heal relationships?

With stories, ideas, and scripture, you will be encouraged to become the family God wants you to be and together, do what God has called you to do. God is renewing all things, and that includes the family. When the family is renewed, so is the Church. When the Church is renewed, so is the world. And it all begins at home.

To my Project Church family, you will get an extended version of this message this weekend!

Questions I’m Asking Myself

What’s God calling me to do that I’m not doing?

Where can I find more pockets of time without eliminating my margin (and sanity)?

How can I be a more proactive husband?

Should I sign with a literary agent and publish traditionally or go a different route?

If I write it, will they read it?

How can Project Church best join God in his mission in the world?

What direction should I take thismustchange.org?

What memories can I create with my kids this summer?

Who can I trust and count on?

What if every Christian embraced the reality they are ministers and missionaries of the gospel?

Should we coordinate a killer relationship & marriage event for our community?

Where does Rapid City hurt?

What am I running to for comfort, security, and identity other than God?

Am I overthinking everything?

What do I need to stop doing, keep doing, and start doing?

Music Monday: Songs For the Road

I love road trips.  There’s something about waking up early, grabbing a fresh cup of coffee, cranking up the tunes, and rolling.

In honor of road trip season, I thought I’d compile a playlist of songs for the road.  Enjoy.

On the Road Again – Willie Nelson
Low Rider – War
Free Fallin’ – Tom Petty & The Heartbreakers
Everywhere – Johnny Cash
Slow Ride – Foghat
Song For the Road – David Ford
Against the Wind – Bob Seger
Drive My Car – The Beatles
Interstate Love Song – Stone Temple Pilots
Hit the Road, Jack – Ray Charles
Fast Car – Tracy Chapman
Nothing Left To Lose – Mat Kearney
Driver 8 – R.E.M.
Born To Be Wild – Steppenwolf
Everyday is a Winding Road – Sheryl Crow
One Headlight – The Wallflowers
Life is a Highway – Tom Cochrane
Highwayman – The Highwaymen
Mustang Sally – Wilson Pickett
The Good Life – Weezer
Here I Go Again – Whitesnake
Who Wouldn’t Want to be Me? – Keith Urban
I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles) – The Proclaimers
Fast As You – Dwight Yoakum
Back in Black – AC/DC

What would you add?

Around the Internets

Some sweet links for you to check out.

Brad Lominick on 10 Small Things that will Kill Company Morale. See #1

Church planters would be wise to give Ben Sternke’s blog a read.

First living cell developed with synthetic DNA. Sounds like the beginning of a disaster sci-fi flick…

I’m praying for this guy.

I’m pumped for the series finale of LOST this Sunday night.

Eugene Cho is doing good work with One Day’s Wage. Check it out.

We’ve lost the art of gratitude.  Art of Manliness shows us how to get it back.

This might be the most entertaining, non-satirical, political spot I’ve seen.

This could change media forever. Introducing Google TV.

Heard an outstanding storyteller this week, V.J. Smith, tell Marty’s story. Here’s a preview.

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